" At each stage of life -- from youth to old age, through pregnancy, baby care, and menopause -- women find that getting a good night's sleep is hard. And it becomes harder, not easier, as they age. "

" "Sure, guys are exhausted, but they're not blindsided by their biology," says Meir Kryger, chairman of the task force that designed this year's poll for the National Sleep Foundation. "They don't have babies. They don't have menopause." "

" To cope, the "Starbucks generation" drinks another cup of Joe. Two-thirds of women use caffeine to stay awake, and more than a third drink three or more cups of coffee (or their equivalent) a day, the poll found. "

" "As soon as I get in in the morning, I take a double shot of espresso," says Ona Lee, 28, who commutes from Old Tappan, N.J., to her job at a New York hedge fund. She rarely goes to bed before 11, and gets up at 5:30 to get to work by 8 a.m. "

" People don't understand that "sleep is a biological need," says Dr. Jeffrey Barasch, director of The Valley Hospital Sleep Center in Ridgewood, N.J. "They think it's a waste of time." "

" Exhaustion reduces the body's ability to fight disease. It diminishes mental sharpness, leading to poor judgment and delayed reaction time -- critical factors while driving a car, say, or caring for small children. Drowsiness or driver fatigue is cited by police as a factor in 56,000 accidents annually. "

" Some suffer from sleep apnea, or the temporary cessation of breathing while asleep. Oxygen deprivation causes a person to wake up with a start, heart pounding. "

" That leads to a faster heart rate and higher blood pressure. If breathing stops too long, it can cause a heart attack. "

" Poor sleep goes hand in hand with poor mood. More than half of women say they're likely to be in a bad mood, sad or angry when they're sleepy during the day. "

" Nearly half eat sugary foods to compensate and 7 percent use medication to keep them alert. "

" "I just want to feel good," says 40-year-old Dot Ottina, a former social worker. "

" Ottina attributes depression and a weight gain of 10 pounds a year to chronic sleep deprivation. "

" When pressed for time, women cut back on the healthiest activities: Half say they sacrifice sleep and exercise when time is short. And more than a third cut back on time with family and friends, healthy eating, and sex with their partner, according to the poll. "

" "My first priority was the children; my second, work; the third, domestic things like the laundry and cleaning up," says Aimee Montanye. "I figure my husband will always be there." "

" She's been sleeping "two to three hours at a time," since the birth of baby Marcelle on Jan. 31. But she's not complaining: When her first child was born 19 months ago, 40 minutes was a treat. "

" More than half of stay-at-home moms say they get up frequently during the night, the Sleep Foundation poll found. Three-quarters say they suffer symptoms of insomnia. It's worst for the newest mothers: 42 percent of postpartum moms rarely, if ever, get a good night's sleep. "

" Even when the baby gives her a chance to rest, Montanye has a tough time getting to sleep. "I don't trust monitors and things like that. I get up to check her breathing," says Montanye, who runs her own consulting firm. "

" Susan Zafarlotfi, clinical director at the Institute for Sleep and Wake Disorders at Hackensack University Medical Center, says that's typical: "Women sleep with one eye open and one ear open once they have kids," she says. "It's
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