"Sexual activity carries with it the risk of HIV and cervical cancer, along with a host of other sexually transmitted diseases, so it can be literally life-saving to talk with kids about sex."
"Take advantage of teachable moments. Be an "askable parent," starting with your child's earliest questions. This avoids the awkwardness about "The Talk" that may lead you to postpone it. Just field the questions they ask, as they arise."
"Take the time to develop a strong relationship with your children and continue this as they move into their teen years. Have conversations on a regular basis about important issues. Your interest in and respect for your teen's point of view builds trust, and that's what's needed in order for him to look to you for guidance on a topic as important as sex."
"Teach teens about intimacy, not just about sex. Whether it's in a movie or in real life, observe out loud to your kids when you see a poignant example of a powerful relationship. Talking with your kids about the value of a committed relationship gives them a foundation for developing standards for their own relationships."